Friday, December 16, 2011

My babies

Video of my babies. Never a dull moment with the two of them. Eliana's curly hair is a mess. It looks like mufasa from the lion king.. That orange-reddish curly mess. :-). The more it grows, the curlier it gets. She didn't get that from me!
It's the blank fro!

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Update

Hello. I hope you all had a great thanksgiving!. Eliana and I are getting ready for the holiday season. Last week I had my 3 month scans and everything looks A-OK! YES!.
I was able to breath again after a few days of total panic. I did not travel to Miami, but had my scans done locally for now. I will head down to Florida soon before going on vacation and will have a conversation with my team of doctors. I am just very relieved and now we wait another 3 months.

Eliana and I have been doing xmas shopping and eating a ton of food. :-) She is such a little musician that her daycare teachers are taking her to the music classes of the 3 year olds because she can follow a tune and beat. I may have a little dancer or musician in my hands.. so long as it is just a habit and not a JOB. lol.  I will post some pictures of her and her new activity table and chair that was bought last weekend. We also went to the tree lighting ceremony, saw the Bergdof holiday displays, went to Philly and saw Elmo while she spent time with grandparents.  All in all, we have had a very good few weeks.

Oh, I cooked thanksgiving dinner and forgot to tell you all about my menu. I did it all myself; A turkey, Purple mashed potatoes, Yukon Potatoes and Poblano Peppers Au gratin (individually sized for each guest), green beans, in a balsamic sauce with almonds and cranberries, fresh and homemade cranberry sauce, cornbread, and rolls. The pies and desserts were made by my sister-in law. Mom, sis, and I stayed up all night and went to midnight madness shopping. I did not purchase much, but sister did a lot of damage.

We are gearing up for my annual Nutcracker obsession. Every since I was little, I have loved the ballet and the Nutcracker. It's my yearly ritual. I love love love ballets and I remember when my dream came true to have the pleasure and luck to attend the Bolshoi theater and see Swan Lake in St. Petersburg, Russia. I will remember that outing so fondly- for the rest of my life. It was a truly a dream come true.
Well, this year, I am unable to zip to St. Petersburg, but will be attending the Matinee showing of The Nutcracker produced by the National Ballet. I am not sure if Eliana will like it very much. I think she will enjoy singing with Elmo production that we will be going to see soon.

Vacation in two weeks to the beach. I an unable to tan due to the medications, but I can be hanging out in a shaded cabana somewhere.

Pictures forthcoming.

till next week.

Monday, November 28, 2011

Happy Thanksgiving To Everyone

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone- friends and family.  What a year this has been for all of us!. So many trials and tribulations; so many changes and so many adjustments. Some for the good and some, well, just a change.
I am taking this week to be thankful for all that I have and  not to think about what I have lost and what I do not have. I cannot change the past and I cannot change or make people do something they dont want to do. All I can do- heck all we can do is move forward and hope for the best.  This past year, Eliana has taught me to live life to the fullest and one day at a time and I try everyday to be a better person for her.

This has been a specially challenging year for me in all respects. I want to thank all of you who have stood by and encouraged me, supported me, and not judged me. I thank all of you that have been my true friends and family. Here is a small shout out to some.
To J: My best friend in the whole world. The person who I have grown with. Have we been through hell and back? and through it all, you have been there as a friend. You truly understand the meaning of unconditional and I am grateful and honored to have you in my life. I know we will be connected until the day we die.
To E: My sister, my other best friend. What would I do without you? You bring me back down to earth when I am crazy, you console me when I need to be consoled and you scold me when I need to be put in place. I am so happy that we are this close.
To M: My bro, we may have many differences in opinion and lifestyles, but I love you very much and I am so happy that we live close and maintain a close relationship. You are very important in my life and I hope to we continue to stay close and connected.
To D: My snooky and dear friend, although our history is an interesting one, we have made it through many battles and wars. Thank you for being there during these crazy times, and even tough you like to keep what you do unnoticed.. I notice.
To A, Y, K, S, N, P, and J: My girls. What would I have done without you when I cried over my hair or my weight, or my nasty nails and no brows. You made me feel beautiful and wonderful. We have all gone through a lot together and I thank you for being my friend. I hope to be as good as a friend to you as you are to me.
To K: My brother from another mother. No  words can express my gratitude to have met you and feel that you are like a brother to me. I hope we can say the same when we re 80 and in a nursing home. ha

Nothing is easy and the road to life is paved with many challenges and every experience helps you understand what is important and how fragile and short our stay in this planet is.

I wish you all a very happy holidays and my next post will be about thanksgiving meal. I am hosting my first thanksgiving in the city and my whole family is coming.

 

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Update

Hello everyone:
Happy few days before thanksgiving.

It's been a very hectic few weeks.. heck- few months!. I have been working full time for two months now and it has taken me about that long to get in the groove of things.
My weekdays consists of the following:  ready?

Wake up at 6:30
Eliana wakes up around 6:45- get her from her crib proceed to place her on my bed- play for 5 minutes
6:30-7am- brush teeth, wash face (showers occur in the evening when Eliana goes to bed)
7am- Feed Eliana breakfast.. play
7-7:30 get eliana dressed, get myself dressed..
7:45- Walk out the door- take Eli in carrier with her stuff and mine (yes, I am a mule), take subway, fight with people in the subway walk to daycare
8:30- arrive at daycare, play with Eliana.. leave her things ready.
8:45- Walk to work
9:am- get to work..  work til 5:30-5:45  (if I am lucky get a workout in over lunch time)
5:45-6:00- walk to daycare (or take subway to daycare)
6:00-6:15- pick up eliana- discuss day events with teachers, strap her to my carrier take her things.. walk to metro
6:45- arrive home.. play and unwind for 15 minutes
7-8pm-  feed Eliana dinner, give Eliana bath, play with her, pjs, get her really to bed.. put her to bed
8:30:11- COLLAPSE.. or eat dinner, take shower, pay bills, maybe do a little work, watch trash tv.. go to bed..trying to squeeze in a workout time, but it's been very tough.
 
repeat..

Fun right? lol
and that's when things are running smoothly and we are both feeling well and not tired/sick/ etc.

The weekends are better and I try to find fun activities for us to do.

I know one thing though.. My life is richer and 1000 times happier because she is in my life.. No regrets, just overjoyed.

Tomorrow a special thanksgiving blog about all the blessing and lots of shout outs and thank yous.

scans and my last procedure coming up in the next few weeks.

Have a wonderful day.
 

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Post pictures

Hi! I don't or haven't posted pictures of travel- usually just Eli, but I was going through some and found this one.

Ain't it pretty?

Traveling sure is delightful ain't it?
Not spending money going out to eat or going out frees up money for sightseeing if you are into that sort of thing.

Enjoy